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A Hunger for Joy — Lorca’s TEDx
I found when I had told this story here that I had never told it before — not like this. We find the opening when what needs to be...
Jun 18, 20181 min read
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The Why of Glasses
The Why of Glasses I missed my glasses. Folly to mourn healing of the cranium, the return of equilibrium in the timing of an eye’s focus,...
Sep 22, 20171 min read
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Would you like to hear the eulogy at your own funeral?
“And you would be…?” Good morning, dearests. Would you like to hear the eulogy at your own funeral? I think I just did. I had a rare...
Apr 13, 20173 min read
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“You Can Do This Hard Thing”: The Odd Road to Tougher
A firefighter told me yesterday that when he started working with me on his resilience he was excited because he thought that he was...
Dec 21, 20162 min read
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How to Eat Love
Love is going out to kill a turkey in 20-degree weather so that your wife can tend other things. And love is still liking the man who is...
Dec 2, 20161 min read
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The Sermon of Lorca’s Animals
When I was asked to speak again this year for the St. Francis-inspired sermon of animals, my first thought was, “What if I said...
Oct 19, 20166 min read
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Profanity for Children
Profanity for Children I refrained from swearing near my young children, not precisely for their sakes, but as much in love for the...
Oct 19, 20162 min read
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Ignite Your Creativity
Teaching is about information and understanding. Coaching, however, is for intuition and implementation. Here’s a 2-minute video if...
Mar 6, 20162 min read
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Luminations — Being flame…
luminations noun, plural. 1. Gleams, glimmers, perspectives, clarity. See also, dawn, morning, simplicity, resilience, work, love,...
Dec 8, 20151 min read
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Luminations — Loosening A Grip on Overwhelm
luminations noun, plural. 1. Gleams, glimmers, perspectives, clarity. See also, dawn, morning, simplicity, resilience, love, home. 2....
Dec 1, 20151 min read
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Fighting terrorism from where you are
Dear ones, this morning I, too, am torn, deeply sad and sorry and worried, reaching out to friends to know they’re safe, aware...
Nov 14, 20151 min read
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Radical Awakeness: Living Among Animals
Spoken to the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Bozeman for the Blessing of the Animals… I was invited to share today in part because...
Sep 28, 20154 min read
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Resilience Myth #3: The Awesome Work Ethic
In the last post, we looked at the resilience Myth #2: “I’ll evade burnout with careful time management.” So stop and think for a moment...
Jan 22, 20152 min read
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This I believe.
We are all together on this ship and some of us will die sooner. Some young. I will grieve again, and comfort. It may be me. Those of...
Nov 4, 20142 min read
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Burnout is an open door.
Sometimes I feel I must be an alien, because I really, really love to talk about death, and about burnout. But this is really why. When I...
Feb 18, 20141 min read
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Resilience is Power. And Peace.
“I just wanted myself back, and then to create something more. After what I’ve been through, I am not going to settle for an average...
Feb 6, 20143 min read
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Think you’re nervous? Try on gleeful.
There is HUGE power accessible through this observation, through raising my personal antenna for the experience of the symptoms and then...
Dec 5, 20131 min read
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Death, Joy & Homing Pigeons — Pecha Kucha Bozeman
#astonishment #doverelease #homingpigeons #ceremony #whitedoves #beauty #awareness #education #mindfulness #thetenthousandthings
Nov 4, 20131 min read
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On living on the right side of the tapestry.
It doesn’t matter what it shows, though I believe there is a pond, a distant house and some small horses. The silk colors were lovely. ...
Jul 25, 20132 min read
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Survivors, Creativity and Leadership presentation at the Bozeman Public Library
Lorca Smetana From Chaos to Beauty: Survivors, Creativity and Leadership Brown Bag Lunch Presentation at the Bozeman Public Library...
May 27, 20131 min read
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